"Over thinking leads to negativity" - Swami Vivekananda So think on..., but not over think. And do not let over thinking kill your HAPPINESS. For making it more clear, I'm sharing a story so let's read it, A teacher took a glass full of water and asked the students to tell the weight of the glass, Students gave their answers ,some said it may be 20 gram, some said 30 gram, some 40 gram, some said 50 gram...and so on, according to their assumption they answered. After listening the answers teacher told them no it doesn't matter what the glass weighs(the actual weight of the glass doesn't matter) but, the thing that matter is how long he hold it, the same glass if he hold it for a minute there is no problem in holding it, but if he hold the glass for an hour then it causes strong pain in his hand ,and the glass would felt heavier than it's actual weight ,and if he keep holding it for the whole day then his hand will be paralyzed and that time...